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1. Amazing! I loved it.
   I loved Jade Pinkett Smith on Red Table Talk. Even more so, I loved the way her daughter Willow was. Willow emanated beauty, compassion, and grace like some kind of earth angel. I saw this in Jada as well, to a lesser extent, so I figured Jada had something to do with that.When Will had his Oscars meltdown, I hated that Jada was made the villain in all of that. I can’t help but think that’s why this book has gotten an overall rating of 3.8 when it deserves so much more.Worthy is beautifully written and with so much insight and intelligence. I can relate to a lot of things Jada talked about—her love of all kinds of music, growing up with drugs and danger (the fearless freedom), her constant struggle to keep healing wounded parts of herself, and not giving up until she got there.I found her fascinating with all her knowledge, interests, and abilities. And this is a woman who transformed her life, having been a child of two people with an addiction who were not present for her, growing up in a poor and dangerous hood, managing to get educated and achieve one success after the other.She is hilarious in the last chapter, providing explanations for everything people had to say about her behavior on that awful Oscars night. Why she rolled her eyes after Chris Rock’s joke. How, despite people’s insistence that she gave Will the side eye signaling him to go beat up Chris, she has nowhere near that much power and control over Will Smith.Nowhere in my reading of this book did I see where she embarrassed or emasculated Will. He comes off looking pretty damn good in this telling. The way she writes about him, you know how much she loves him—unconditionally. And you can see why.It’s obvious that headlines we’ve seen, like “Jade never wanted to marry Will,” have been taken out of context from her book or a story they’d heard. Many stories seem to have been taken out of context. What she struggled with most of that time can’t be minimized and certainly can’t be dismissed.Jade does takes accountability for her life mistakes and admits when she got things wrong. She has continued to grow. In fact, she writes like a person with empathy, one who realizes how vulnerable we all are. She’s had to deal with critics and naysayers but handles even that with kindness and grace.For those who dismiss her as a self-proclaimed guru, please understand people sharing their struggles and earned wisdom isn’t about trying to be some guru. It comes from a place of love and caring for fellow human beings. As a writer of my own recovery memoir, I promise you that we share with the hope that it might help someone. And we share it with love. There are just some people the world wants to fight with, and I think it’s because they represent a truth people are not quite ready for.So, I’m happy Jada Pinkett Smith wrote this book, and I’m glad I read it. In fact, I wished I could give her a hug. I just love her.And this is why I like to read memoirs. It’s so important for us to relate to one another and understand each other’s struggles. It always seemed to me that if we all understood one another better or tried to, the world would be a much nicer place. If we can’t even do it individually, how do we do it on a global scale? How do we create a kinder world?So. thank you, Jade. Your book is a gift.

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2. In depth spiritual and emotional memoir
   I found Jada’s memoir to be emotionally and spiritually deep. I did not know much of Jada’s story whatsoever and was surprised time and again as I read. The dangerous environment she grew up in was quite foreign to me, having grown up in Australia. I had no idea her parents were both drug addicts, and she became a drug dealer in her teen years. Her relationship with Tupac was interesting and the many deaths she experienced, including Tupac’s, must have been very painful. She delves into how she suppressed grief, she suppressed her own depression and issues with her self-worth for many years. More than once she experienced suicidal ideation. I wouldn’t have guessed, had I not read about it here.Jada shares blogposts at the end of each chapter that help the reader to identify areas of trauma, pain, issues with their parents and other relationships, nudging the reader toward awareness and greater-wholeness—even greater worthiness as the book is titled. She shares some of her experiences with different religious belief systems, therapists and medicines. She talks about books that have impacted her, spiritual teachers, some of whom she has met, causes like human trafficking, how the red table talk developed, her experiences as an actress and as a musician, and ultimately how she has progressed in her search for meaning and significance.Jada also shares about her marriage with Will. How they have never “cheated” because they always discussed their sexual engagements and had something similar to an “open” marriage. They are none-the-less “ride-or-die” companions. They have lived separately at times but never divorced and as I far as I can tell, have no intention of ever divorcing. They work together and share family for life. Jada even goes into the details around what happened between Will Smith and Chris Rock. That was super interesting—especially Jada’s response to be even more dedicated to her relationship with Will. They are still husband and wife and I hope they will find themselves coming closer together as they both explore their worth, their spirituality, their personalities, their dreams and hopes for the future.I thoroughly enjoyed Jada’s memoir!

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3. I love it and so glad I read it to have a better understanding of Jada and her family.

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4. Ich bin ein großer Fan von Jada und es ist sehr berührend ihre Geschichte zu lesen. Ich habe lange nicht mehr gern gelesen aber dieses Buch hat mir die Freude am lesen zurückgegeben. Sehr spannend, berührend, überraschend und einfach schön. WORTHY!

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5. It’s the first time that Jada gets to tell her side of her story. In her own terms. It’s a testimony of what Black women have to go through to find peace. Anyone can see themselves in her journey, but I think this memoir will become a reference for Black girls and Black women. The book states how and why they may feel unlovable, but it gives hope that things will get better. “Worthy” shows love as a personal practice and how the process may take a lifetime. Just like bell hooks theorized. The beauty is in embracing the journey.

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6. “Wow, where do I even begin with “Worthy” by Jada Pinkett Smith? This book has truly been a game-changer for me! From the moment I started reading, I felt like Jada was speaking directly to my soul. Her words are so relatable and comforting, reminding me that I am not alone in my struggles.Jada’s honesty and vulnerability throughout the book are what make it so powerful. She isn’t afraid to share her own insecurities and past mistakes, which instantly made me feel understood and less alone in my own journey. Her experiences serve as a guiding light, offering valuable insights on how to navigate life’s challenges and discover our true worth.One of the aspects I loved most about “Worthy” is how it goes beyond just personal growth. Jada also touches upon relationships, whether it’s friendships, romantic partnerships, or parenting. She shares her own stories and provides wisdom that I found incredibly valuable. It’s like having a best friend by your side, offering advice and encouragement every step of the way.Aside from the content, Jada’s writing style is simply beautiful. Her words flow effortlessly, and she has a way of capturing the essence of her voice and authenticity. I found myself underlining passages and jotting down quotes that resonated deeply with me.In conclusion, “Worthy” is a must-read for anyone on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Jada Pinkett Smith’s words are empowering, thought-provoking, and filled with love. This book has helped me embrace my uniqueness, challenge societal expectations, and recognize my own worth. I am forever grateful for the wisdom and inspiration it offers. Trust me, you won’t regret picking up a copy of “Worthy”.”

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7. I learn’t a lot from reading this book. It made me realize I am “Worthy!”

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